Interested in exploring her own physical and mental limits, Shibarista Jess experimented with pain, endurance and physical restrictions from an early age, to discover the effect on her body but foremost to explore the effects on her mind and emotions. Rope became an important part of this journey when she met Belgian shibari-expert Marc BeShibari in 2007 and started to model for his Japanese style rope work. 

“Surrendering to the force of the ropes and the will of the person handling them allowed my mind to let go and made me retreat into a serene and quiet inner space, where there were no do's and dont's, musts or must nots...”

 

Together BeShibari & Shibarista performed and gave workshops throughout Europe. She modelled for amateur and professional photographers and featured in Belgian blockbuster film "SM Rechter" (SM Judge) in 2009.

In 2014 she started photographing BeShibari's rope sessions, to explore Japanese rope bondage from a viewer's perspective. Inspired by Nobuyoshi Araki and Sugiura Norio, she developed her own style of sober, low light imagery void of decoration, in which interactions between model and ropes are the key element. 

Every session she captures is a unique and intimate experience to her, in which the person in the ropes sheds his or her daily appearance and personality. “There is no posing, no acting, just a recording of a body being sculptured, a mind being released and deep emotions surfacing. As an artist I am grateful for people allowing me to portray them in sometimes explicit or intensely emotional situations.”

 

Together with BeShibari, she combines her experience in kinbaku with that in event organisation to run Shibari Lounge, where they provide an open, low-threshold platform for rope lovers to inspire and learn from each other. Since 2018 she also picked up the ropes and found she enjoys tying (nearly!) as much as modelling. Logically, working together with BeShibari has had a profound influence on her bondage work, but over the years she developed her own style. “Put in a few keywords I describe my own ties as intuitive, slow, slightly sadistic, connective… I love to see my partners slowly surrender to the ropes and reach that quiet inner space I also know so well…”

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Shibarista's path in kinbaku closely follows that of BeShibari, so please check his bio for all projects they collaborated in. Some highlights she likes to mention here:

 

2009: Performance on First London Festival of the Art of Japanese Bondage (UK)

2009: Participates in Belgian blockbuster film ‘SM Rechter’ (S&M Judge). In 2010 performs at World Premiere in Kinepolis Movie Theatre, Antwerp

2009: Hosts two-day workshop with kinbakushi Arisue Go (JP) in Brussels (B)

2010: Gives first ever bondage workshop in Delhi, India

2016: Co-founder of Shibari Lounge Antwerp, owner of the venue from 2018 

2017: Collaboration with VJ Nanon Malika (B) for performances of DJ Charlotte De Witte

2018: Starts teaching successful series of regular group workshops at Shibari Lounge together with BeShibari

2019: Hosts shibarite Yoi Yoshida (JP) at Shibari Lounge for weekend workshop and stage performance

2019: Performer at Onawa Asobi Festival, Tokyo, with BeShibari and Akane chan (JP)

2020: Organises Onawa Asobi Europe with Yoi Yoshida (JP) and BeShibari and performs (followed by editions in 2023, 2024, 2025)

2021: Bondage consultancy for Amazon production “Everybody Loves Diamonds”, Antwerp

2022: Performer at “Fade Into You” Festival for De Studio, Antwerp

2023: Performer at “360°” Drawing Marathon for the Royal Academy, Antwerp

2023: Hosts Nawashi Kazami Ranki (JP) and Kasumi Hourai (JP) in Shibari Lounge for weekend workshops and stage performances

2024: Hosts Tati Limati (Ukraine), Kasumi Hourai (Japan) and Laodai (Italy)

2025: Co-ties dancers of Eastman Company and Opera & Ballet Vlaanderen for "Beyond Classic", a Darklands event

 

As a teacher, Shibarista boasts nearly 20 years of experience with an extensive array of (international) classes she attended so far. Her interest lies in studying with Japanese bakushi as much as possible, therefore she picks her learning moments mostly with Japanese teachers, or instructors very close to the Japanese shibari scene.

With a natural talent to pass on information, she is a skilled, patient and empathic instructor, who leaves students lots of opportunity to discover their own personality and creativity in rope bondage.

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Summary of workshops & classes she attended over the years:

 

2010 – Kinoko Hajime (JP)

2010 – Go Arisue (JP)

2019 – Yoshida Yoi (JP)

2020 – Discover Kinbaku (D)

2021 – Sin (GB/D)

2022 – Aku Aku (F/JP)

2022 – Sin (GB/D)

2022 – RopeMarks (NL)

2023 – Nuit de Tokyo (F/JP)

2023 – Nawashi Kazami Ranki (JP)

2023 – Kasumi Hourai (JP)

2024 – Tati Limati (UA/TH)

2024 – Kasumi Hourai (JP)

2024 – Laodai (IT/TH)

2024 – Naka Akira (JP)

2024 – Shigonawa Bingo (JP)